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状元彩票注册 ZHICHANGSHANGDEJIAOLVGAIRUHEKEFU?

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悦纳,就需要先知道焦虑的原因。毛迪开始和我诉说那些让她焦虑的往事。

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这种焦虑的原因,不是因为追求结果的完美,也不是因为对自己要求过高,而是不能接纳自己的状态。所谓接纳,也不是说简单承认自己就是不行,摆出死猪不怕开水烫的架势。接纳,其实是懂得在现有资源基础上做出最优的选择。当做到自己所能做的事情了,一切就交出去好了,特别是结果,那是一个你永远无法控制的,你所做的只能是实现期待的行动。

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心理学里面有个名词叫“目标颤抖”,指的就是太专注于目标,反而做的不好,很可能失败。失败还不要紧,关键的是这样焦虑的情绪会让人愈发“颤抖”,离目标也就愈发远了,到了最后,就只有颤抖,没有行动了。记住,你是在赶路,而不是和狼争斗的。

状元彩票注册 JIENA,TINGSHANGQURONGYI,ZUOQILAIBINGBURONGYI,YINWEIWOMENZONGHUIBEIYIXIEKEGUANYINSUYINGXIANG。MAODIJIEZHEJIANGLELINGWAIYIJIANRANGTANENGLIANGJIANGDIDESHIQING。

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状元彩票注册 JIAOLV,CHENGLEMAODIZIWOFOUDINGMOSHIDEYIZHONGHELIBIAOXIANXINGSHILE。WOWENLETAJIGEWENTI:

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状元彩票注册 WEILAI,RUGUOYOUYIGENIQIDAIDE、MANYIDEHUIYIXINGSHI,NEIHUISHISHENME?

我是一个一个问出来的,说着说着,毛迪的眼睛就发亮了,甚至越来越兴奋。实际上,我们都知道,在陌生领域里,每个人都会有“失败”的可能,但我们要看到的不是结果的失败,而是尝试的成功。一次伟大的实践,带给我们更多的是成长,是别处不可能有的新眼光和新想法。为什么一定要求你把实践的意义绑定在一个确定的皆大欢喜的结果上呢?或许别人会要求,或许内心的那个闹鬼一样的声音会要求,因为我们已经习惯了被这样要求着。但是,你要学会说不,不要把这样的拒绝看作是叛逆,这是对成长中自我的呵护和对现在勇敢自我的欣赏,和对美好未来的憧憬。

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别让自己跪着活,因为你也不愿意。对于领导、权威或者是一些你希望讨好的人交付的任务总是希望接下来,而且要接好,甚至是毫无保留地答应下来。然后,发现自己可能做不了,这怎能不焦虑呢?这中间作祟的就是“讨好”心态。这自然会保护你得到些什么,比如嘉许,比如信任,但是也会因此让你无法承受任务之重。同时,你也并不愿意这样,并在心里打着算盘,做这件事会不会得到认可,做那件事呢?如此,焦虑只会加重。

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状元彩票注册 RUGUOJIAOLVLE,XIANWENWENNEIGEDANRANDEZIJIZAINALI。JIENAZIJI,XIANGXINSHIJIANDELILIANG。

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